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Both my grandmothers got divorced. One of them divorced twice, but pined forever after for husband #2; the other was still spitting mad at her husband when he died forty years after their divorce, but also, I think, has felt like a failure in an important sense for being unable to keep that marriage together. But she also turned down at least two offers of marriage from other men, so I think she learned that lesson ...